Hi Guys, hope we are all well now that the long weekend is upon us :).
I’ve had a few people say to me over the past few days that their weakness when it comes to food is chocolate. Knowing that Easter is here in just a few days and there have been eggs and hot cross buns on the shelves for what feels like months now I thought now might be a good time for a little refresher post on self-control and willpower.
I’d like to share with you the journey I have been on for the past month as an example of building/maintaing mental strength and willpower. About 6weeks ago I decided that I wanted to start up my own page on Facebook to promote my personal training, this blog and in general just sharing motivation and inspiration when it comes to health, fitness and nutrition. I decided that I wanted to get some photos done to put on the page and also to outline one of my biggest rules when it comes to a profession “practise what you preach”. I would hardly want potential clients or anyone for that matter to think that I wasn't capable of transforming my own body if I am expected to help them transform theirs!
So I started a new program where I went completely 100%clean (no treats or cheats even on the weekends) and upped my intensity with my weights and cardio training. Now I am a big creature of habit and those who know me will tell you this. I like routine and once I get into one I follow it pretty religiously lol. Sundays were always my cheat day where I would have a rest from exercise and indulge a little in what I felt like after keeping my 80-90% clean diet all week. Cutting this out changed my routine a little and forced me to create a new one which proved a mental challenge to me. However my little friend called willpower helped me out and together we pushed through that first weekend. By the second weekend a new routine so to speak had been formed and by the third weekend I was no longer struggling mentally with this change.When they say willpower is like a muscle and the more you use it the strongerit gets they are right, unfortunately most people give in too soon before the muscle even has a chance to strengthen.
The following week however I incurred a new change and this was a big one where I found myself very mentally challenged. What was it youask? The dreaded carb depletion/water load.
This is a process in which you cut out almost all carbs (Iwas on 25g a day) from your diet for in order to starve your muscles of glycogen (which is the main energy source we use when exercising). Your diet consists of protein and fats (good ones) and the idea is that your body will start to use your fat stores as energy. Meanwhile you are drinking an excess of water (8-9 litres a day) to flush sodium out of your body. The first few days weren’t too bad, I lacked a little energy but other than that I was ok. Days 3and 4 were a struggle as they were the weekend. I started to have a lot of mental doubts as I wasn’t sure if my body was even changing and started to question the whole process and got a little bit down on everything I had worked for over the past month. I could have given in right then and there but thankfully my friend willpower stuck with me and together we decided that I had given myself a goal and I was going to stick to it and whatever happened be proud of that at the end.
By day 5 I was beginning to see the light and felt better. I was definitely leaning out although I was carrying a hell of a lot of waterweight! Day 6 began the last part of the challenge, reintroduce carbs (to fill the muscle after it had been starved of glycogen), cut water and sodium. Basically my diet was pretty exciting- rice cakes, turkey, asparagus and sweet potato and very little water. Day 7 was a mentally draining day as I think at this point I was just over it! I was also not feeling as though much had changed through the cutting water and eatingcarbs but I know I am often my harshest critic. I began to question it all again and when I woke up at 1:30am on the morning of the photos with a splitting headache (most likely dehydration) I really struggled and although I was so close I even then considered giving up (crazy now that I think about it).But again I forced my mental strength/willpower to help me out and on the day ended up having a great 3 hours getting lots of photos- some good, some terrible lol but ALL WORTH IT!
I can honestly say that coming through this my willpower has definitely strengthened. Yes it was hard and yes I had to make sacrifices along the way but you know what they were worth it because I wanted the end goal more than I wanted anything else.
So this weekend if you are feeling tempted to OVERindulge in all that chocolate or hot cross buns or whatever else STOP and take a second tothink about your own goals and your own level of willpower. Think about whatyou want more- that extra hot cross bun or a nice set of your own buns?! ;) Ofcourse remember it is ok to indulge a little if you are sticking to your exercise and clean eating but just don’t let yourself lose focus of the bigger picture and goals you want for yourself because in the end no-one else can achieve them for you :)
Have a great and safe weekend and stay tuned for my Facebook page :)
Eat CLEAN, live LEAN, train MEAN